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Ever wondered why we send flowers to funerals, or why
mourning horses wear elaborate feather plumes? Have you ever tasted
a funeral biscuit or questioned the etiquette of funeral attire? In
this illustrated talk, funeral historian Emma Sparre-Newman traces
the rise of the Victorian funeral director and how their role
helped shape many of the customs we still observe today and a few
that have thankfully been left behind.
Drawing on a wealth of social history and curious detail, Emma will
explore how industrialisation, urban living, and the rigid
expectations of Victorian society gave birth to the modern funeral
industry. From professional mourners and elaborate mourning garb to
death photography and the symbolism of flowers, this talk reveals
how 19th century values, anxieties, and aesthetics transformed the
way we deal with death. Join us to uncover the legacy of the
Victorians and the surprising stories behind the rituals that still
accompany us to the grave.
Emma
Sparre-Newman
Emma Sparre-Newman
developed an early interest in funerals as the daughter of a
country parson, observing firsthand how her father supported
bereaved families. After a detour into costume work at the BBC, she
joined a South London funeral firm where she worked for nearly 30
years, including roles as senior funeral director, training
manager, and service centre manager. In 2024, she became Cemetery
Services and Business Development Manager at Brompton Cemetery.
Emma regularly gives talks to diverse audiences, from the Police
and Clergy to museums, the Women’s Institute, and Gothic and
Steampunk events across the UK.
Ticket | Event time | Cost |
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The Mourning Trade | 13:30 - 15:00 | £12.50 |
Address
Brompton Cemetery Chapel, North gate off Old Brompton Road, South gate off Fulham Road, London, SW5 9JE
Nearest Station
West Brompton (Tube)
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