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  • Talk/Panel Discussion
  • Tickets from £13.75
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  • Thu, 29th Oct 2026 @ 19:00 - 21:00
  • 19:00 - 21:00

Our gravestone is our last message to the world and a permanent memorial to how we wish to be remembered. The inscriptions on headstones range from the prosaic requiescat in pace (rest in peace) to epitaphs, poems, quotations, professions of faith, imprecations, reflections on mortality, warnings to anyone who might disturb the earthly remains and even jokes (comic writer Spike Milligan’s gravestone bears the legend “I told you I was ill”).

The images on gravestones can have more cryptic meanings. Early Christians would depict an anchor instead of a cross on headstones to avoid persecution for their faith. Other common motifs are the urn to symbolise the immortality of the soul, a broken column to represent a life cut short and a skull or skeleton to serve as a memento mori, reminding the visitor of their own mortality. Knowing how to decode this symbolic language can reveal insights into the person interred, the circumstances of their life and their hopes for the afterlife.

In this age where most people who die are cremated the art of tombstone design is becoming something of a lost art. In his illustrated talk, taphophile Robert Stephenson will delve into its history, symbolism and meaning.

Tickets £12.50 including a 20% donation toward a host of restoration projects at Highgate Cemetery.

Robert Stephenson
Robert Stephenson is a qualified City of London Culture and Heritage guide and a trustee at Kensal Green and Brompton cemeteries. He teaches on London and death studies. Robert is also chairman of the National Federation of Cemetery Friends.

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Goodbye World

The Hidden Language of Graveyards

19:00 - 21:00 £13.75

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The Chapel: HIghgate Cemetery West, Swains Lane, London, N6 6PJ

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Archway (Tube)

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A Curious Invitation and Antique Beat
An annual festival of walks, talks, workshops and performances to entertain and inform on the subjects of mortality and the city with the best historians, experts, guides, performers and storytellers.

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  • Written by Jason

    Rating: 5

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    Visited 3 years ago
    An excellent talk, in which Robert Stephenson delves into its history, symbolism and meaning. His knowledge and experience was worth every single penny spent. Also the Victorian punch was awesome.
  • Written by Jason

    Rating: 5

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    Visited 3 years ago
    Lawyer Naomi Ryan gave an insightful talk on some of the strangest cases in legal history in which the Fortean meets the forensic, the bizarre is examined by barristers and the strange is investigated by the state, and find out whether these hallowed forums and great legal minds were able to solve the mysteries.
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